MEN, Let's Talk
Hey Fellas, I get it. I really do. Speed dating can sound intimidating. We have found that, for the majority of society, men are a little more intimidated by these events than women. While this isn’t the case for everyone, I wanted to share that with you so you know you’re not alone.
Think about how ladies typically operate. Guys don’t grab buddies to go to the restroom. You know exactly what I’m talking about.
So what does that mean exactly? Guys, we need to be in uncomfortable situations. They are what push us to grow and, hopefully, find the right one. Look, whatever you’re doing right now isn’t working. You wouldn’t be here if it was.
Follow me here: I spent over a year pursuing my wife. She had placed me so hard in the friend zone that most would have probably given up on a relationship. Was I creepy when I kept pursuing her? I think she would say “No”! Ha! What I did was kept showing up. I put myself in sometimes uncomfortable situations to show her that I cared about her, and I believe that is ultimately why she agreed to date me.
A friend recently told me that the best dudes are the quiet ones. I agree with this. The head down hardworking guys who stick to themselves are the ones women want. Trust me on this. I watch loud guys with overly confident mindsets come to these events all the time, and they get shut down. The humble, kind, quiet men are the ones walking away with matches with the best women and the best chance for a long term relationship. That is you.
I want men like you to join the cohorts. I don’t do cohorts of women. Why? Because the best men in the room create the best results. When you come to an event that is just your cohort, you will feel more comfortable. While we aren’t here for it, you might find some camaraderie with some of the guys in the room. We are here to find the one, and I am certain that if you can commit to this, you will be on the right track to a lasting relationship.
No, I can’t promise results. Get yourself put together. Shave, wear something nice, show you can provide longevity, and sit across from each lady who comes and be as genuinely you as possible.
To join a cohort you must fill out the questionnaire below. If you pass the sniff test, you will be sent a link with an official invitation to join a cohort. The invitation will have all of the details I know you are looking for. If you desire not to participate once you are sent an official invitation, no skin off me or you.
Talk soon,
Aaron
